Why some men lose interest the moment you like them back

Why do some men chase intensely, only to lose interest the moment things become mutual? It starts like a casino at peak hour: lights flashing, anticipation rising, every interaction feeling like the next spin might be the one. But the moment the outcome becomes certain, the illusion breaks. The machine doesn’t break down, it simply stops being a game. And for some, that shift from uncertainty to certainty is mistaken for losing interest.